Those who know me know that I come from a family where not
much of sentimental value gets discarded.
Several years ago, I was able to copy my grandmother, Gertrude Richards,
wedding registry from December 1902. It was a small book: on one page was the name of the person
or people who gave her the present with their addresses and on the other the
gift. What a treasure trove of
information. Who else do you invite to
your wedding, but your relatives and close friends? It certainly filled in some
holes about where people lived and allowed me to gather more information about
them
In many ways it was a family tree and I could see or figure
out who was related to whom. It was easy
to pinpoint close family members as their surnames were Richards or Cochrane. It was also fairly easy to spot those who were
related to the Richards, e.g. the Mallorys or the Sterns. I knew those last names.
However, there were a number of people who were rather
puzzling. For example, there were a
number of Fishers, all of whom lived in Manhattan, New York. With some digging on Ancestry and Family
Search, I discovered that the Fishers were cousins of Gertrude Richards’s
father and were also in the shoe business as was Gertrude's father.
Equally interesting, were the gifts—remember this is a
family that passes things down from generation to generation. They ranged from silver spoons, to vases, to
pillows, to handkerchiefs, to bowls.
There were several items that struck me because I think I have
them. One is a bookcase from Gertrude’s Aunt Emily Cochrane. I think it is in the one my
family room, filled with old books. Another was a black fan. Now that
may seems unusual, but a black fan has been passed down to me from my parents,
and I believe it might be the same one.
I would love to ask my Granny more about her gifts. Did she use all of them? Did she have some favorites? What did she give her husband as a gift and what did he give her?
What a treasure...how lucky you are to have it!
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